Thank You!

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Please-and-Thank-you…life’s staples!  Thank you for stopping by and please feel free to add your own tidbits of thankfulness below.

This week, I’m grateful for…

Soda bread

Marrickville Markets

Brickfields

Sunday morning at Brickfields

Zero Waste Home I love her motto.  And I love it even more that she lives this way in such a stylish home!  Swoon, StyleSister!  And she’s French!!

My moment

Silverbeet at breakfast with my eggs layered over it, and at dinner with my lamb chops sitting a-top.

Wholefood Warriors’ sprouted, vegan pancakes with a savoury filling of veggies, meat, salad, fresh herbs, hummus and chilli.  Having it for breakfast?  Even better!

The sweet guy who checked that I knew Mario as he had seen M wander off with my iPhone while I was ordering coffee!  Kind and caring folk do exist!

AidyBoy

Spending time with my li’l brother.

Being more mindful of waste, and doing my bit to reduce!  I am determined to follow this path, a start of which I’ve already made.  Now looking forward to sourcing places where I can buy my milk in refillable glass bottles!

My new followers on lieslg!  Welcome lovelies ─ you totally make my day, & not in a numbers kind of way, it’s rather that you like what I am saying here.  Bless you.

Simplicity

Brown-glass apothecary-like bottles.

My valiant attempt at reducing rather than simply de-cluttering!  Also, mindful de-cluttering!!

Sarah Wilson and her i-quit-sugar-movement.  Not only is it educational (& confronting!) it is also a beacon of light, and something to which to aspire.  Addendum: I fail all the time in sticking to sugar-free.  I am so attached to sugar (and not the kind you may think either!) without even having known it.  But knowledge truly is empowering and once you know, you do have to make choices based on that (confronting!) knowledge.  Having said that, I no longer berate myself when I trip over (mouth first onto that chocolate bar!) I just move on and try again.  I know (as with a lot of things these days) that the switch will click over and things will just be……the road of endeavour indeed pays off.  I’m yet to use the i-quit-sugar chocolate cookbook, but I am excited about giving it a wholehearted shot.  Did I mention that I am determined to transition into this tribe?  Well, I am determined!  Plunge in and Prosper I say!

Fakkes Stifatho

Maria Hannaford over at Econest.  I love and learn from her philosophy, weekly, and her Greek-inspired recipes are divine!  Just this week I tried the Fakkes Stifatho ─ yum!

Fresh laundry…yes, it makes my heart sing!

Impromptu styling at home…I’m pretty sure it’s a calling!

Kayaking!  I tried it for the first time, a week ago, and it was pretty awesome, and easier than I thought!

Bloglovin’!  The interface ─ it’s so much better than Google Reader.  My import is now also complete, so I can happily tick that one, off my infamous to-do list!

Inspiration hitting me mid-something-else!  And this usually means that another thing also gets done, created, produced.  Can’t not be happy with that.

Last season’s inexpensive, cobalt-blue, part-cashmere pullover, from Zara, keeping me warm on Sydney’s first real cold day!

Repurposing!  This perspex container used to be my tissue box, until one of the tiny screws of the lid fell out.  My intention was to replace it, but then I happened upon the “reduce & re-use” train of thought, and decided that I no longer needed to buy tissues, at least not for every room in the house!  And just like that, my erstwhile tissue box made the move to my kitchen, and my tomatoes are very happy!

Repurposing

Bulk shopping at my local co-op!  So good to stick to the Refuse, Reduce + Re-use motto.  I’m getting there and loving the process.

Good Japanese for an impromptu lunch.

Hanging out with friends ─ impromptu and midweek, the best!

Nettle tea and homemade chocolate.

Elephant Bling

Re-visiting my old jewellery!

Getting ready to sell some of my things on Gumtree.  Here’s a snippet…

A brand new pair of last-season Giorgio Armani sunglasses with original cloth and case

A brand new pair of last-season Giorgio Armani sunglasses with original cloth and case

A brand new pair of last-season Gucci sunglasses with case

A brand new pair of last-season Gucci sunglasses with case

Vintage bag

Vintage bag

Revelations or a-ha moments, and coming to them very simply…while doing the dishes!

Letting go ─ of what you think you want and need, of how you think it should be or unfold; letting go of the expectations, and the struggle.

Acceptance…of everything ─ self, circumstance, thoughts, situations, people…accepting and then simply being grateful for how it is right now.  NOTE:  Acceptance is very different to giving up, so please know that.

“No amount of self-improvement can make up for a lack of self-acceptance”

Dr Robert Holden

What are you thankful for this week?

Thank you!

Thank you!Every day is an opportunity to be thankful.  And every day, amidst the madness of life, one has to remind oneself of exactly this.  I particularly push myself through the gates of gratitude when I least feel the bliss of the g-word.  And while I begin reluctantly, by the 3rd or 4th thank-you, I am rearing to go and with a huge smile that starts at the root of my liver and heart!

I give thanks in the morning, while still in bed, & starting with my bed!  It’s deliciously warm and comfortable, and had just provided the best platform for a stupendous night’s sleep; Makes a big difference to one’s day.

I give thanks at night, yes again in my bed ─ a popular pulpit for gratitude! hahaha.  And also everywhere and anywhere in between.  Whenever I remember, I’ll quickly shoot off one or a few things for which I am grateful……sometimes, I’ll take a moment in the sun, over my latte, to scribble a score of gratitude in one of my favourite Moleskines.

I gave my thanks its first public platform here on lieslg, & revisited it every Friday at Cocktail Hour.  I stopped for a while, but then I came back; I re-jigged the name and now it sports a simpler moniker.  It may no longer (strictly) be weekly, but it will continue to find its place here as it’s such a big part of my life anyway.

Being grateful really opens up my eyes to abundance…my own abundance.  There is no room or necessity to want-and-wish for anything or anybody else’s life or good fortune.  And it’s the quickest and simplest and cheapest way to happiness and…generating some more of that much-desired abundance.

So here I go……

Share Your Victory ─ it teaches me so much about myself, business and people.  It’s the 3rd member of our family.  It’s our heart.  It’s our livelihood.  And because sharing victories and supporting each other is what it’s all about.

lieslg ─ it gives me such pleasure hanging out here and writing and musing to my heart’s content.

A Cowboys-&-Indians party!  Yes, as you can see below, I’m half Indian (top) and half Cowboy (bottom) ─ a somewhat cheeky nod to my own mixed heritage!

Hands up!

A cluster of feathers and a bubble gun!  Oh, the little things ─ hahaha!  This is an old Sportsgirl necklace that I quickly fashioned into a my version of the Indian headdress. I bought the bubble gun from a local toy store & then gifted it to the kidlets after the party. Here’s to thinking creatively (to avoid unnecessary costume shopping) and supporting local, small businesses as well.

Cerulean skies

Cerulean skies.

Curly Top

Curly hair.

Meeting new people all.of.the.time, and giving time to friends who have been in the fold for a while.

LuciteLove

Old jewellery coming out to play again.

Manly, and hanging out on the harbour.

GreenJuicing

Green juicing, always.

‘All that I need to know is revealed to me.  All that I need, comes to me in Divine Right Order’

Discovering Kundalini yoga.

Jewellery design sketches!!!

Collaboration!!

Letting go and allowing.

Long ocean swims.

Kayaks!

The Gordon Family

Old photos of my dad, his dad and his mum.

White Moleskines!!

The distillation of my 2013 Core Desired Feelings: self-acceptance (enough)│believe (confidence)│purpose (excited) │focus (accomplished).  Sweet-Swoon!!

Organic almost-everything!

Raw milk!

Trieste limited edition coffee pods ─ such lovely smooth chocolate-y undertones.

SuperbSunset

Amazing sunsets and magical moon nights.

MagicalMoon

Visiting family in Canberra.

Entrepreneurial ventures.

Meeting up with blogger buddies.

Sundowners with friends at Belgrave Cartel.

Taking up with Pinterest again ─ so good!

Sugar-free snacks.

Anzac Day.

A Friday lunch-date with a beautiful friend.  A bonus that we were spoilt with mazarine skies, a balcony with ocean views, a gorgeous apartment, yummy food, fab company, music and good ole fashioned laughter!

Herbal teas.  My current favourite is planet organic Chai Spice, while my ongoing love is for Genmaicha with roasted rice.  Ahhh…wicked work companions.

Imagination.  My imagination.  It’s such a blessing.  An escape and also home…as well as a  fabulous foundation for birthing ideas and collaboration and business ventures and your Dreamality™

ITONC

Getting up super early on a Saturday to experience the second-last day of a pop-up cafe. It helped that the view to the sky, beach and ocean was magical, and that the service, coffee and food was fantastic!  Here’s hoping the pop-up becomes permanent.

DyeON

DipDye

Getting shit done! hahaha.  And Sundays are simply super for this very reason.  I got my dye-ON, my writing too ─ hello 4 articles, in the space of about 3 hours!  And cleared out my jewellery and more clothes!

De-cluttering

Snippets…of TIME!  This is precious and divine, all in the one breath.  Shit.can.be.done.in.snippets.of.time!  I was never one for that ── I’ve always preferred long stretches of time…to start, keep going until that ‘thing’ was finished!  Oh, the old ways! Hahaha.  Well, the snippets…of TIME thing is gratifying with a capital G!  It’s called life, it’s called this-needs-to-be-done-along-with-everything-else, it’s called focus, it’s called “no more excuses”, it’s called ‘Yay, I can do this’……and I quite love it, because it’s getting shit done!

Bed

Lazy Sunday mornings (before getting shit done!)…in bed!  Being ridiculous, silly, narcissistic…whatever…it’s about trying shit (as well as getting it done!), experimenting and putting it out there.  I call this my grainy rendition of the 1980s-Elle-Macpherson-in-bed-for-Gilles-Bensimon’s-Sunday-morning-photographic-experimenting!!

Plunge in and Prosper!  My mantra for 2013 and beyond.  So good.  Incidentally ms brownskin came up with this one, and I love her for it!  So, I am super thankful to be able to get my PIP on!

Snacking on Love and Forgiveness.  And being reminded to do so just when I most need to.  It’s so-good soul-food I tell ya!

Letting go of “my plan”.  Oh boy, so hard to do, but I’m blinking determined to Plunge in and Prosper!

KitchenCorner

My kitchen corner ─ much body-&-soul-food is prepped here with joy (the joy bit, more and more these days!)

Clearing out the physical junk to allow my much-loved and treasured possessions to shine and give me joy, make me smile every time I catch a glimpse of them or that one thing.  I am enjoying my improved plan of having, in my home (and wardrobe), only that which I absolutely adore.

Miracles

Mothers’ Day and being with family, for the whole weekend.

BurgersWithATwist

Burgers with a twist!  Yes, that’s sprouted rye & spelt and oh, so yummy!

Cafe love and new ingredients…hello mustard cress + chilli on avocado.  I will be re-creating this combination at home.

Exercise.  Honestly, not as anticipated as my hit of morning nectar, but very satisfying once it’s done (and yes, good for the mind, body and soul!)

Each.new.day…full-stop!  And realising the magnanimity of this daily gift.  It’s not just another day to endure, it is carte-blanche on repeat if you’re lucky enough to be alive and in receipt.  I sometimes need reminding (day-dredge can be persistent in her visits!) and when I am reminded, I can deeply realise and deeply appreciate.

Sparkle

Give thanks…appreciate…when you least feel like it too, because it will flip your switch to feel-good pretty much pronto!

BIG love xoxo

Thank you!

There is nothing like the little thank-you prayer to wake up your well of abundance, and this week, I am truly grateful for…

Working Saturday

Working Saturdays ─ they are seriously the best…no interruptions, you work from a place of chilled-the-hell-out & want-to, and productivity is simply prodigious!

Starting my mornings with a glass of water and Apple Cider Vinegar.  My daily gift to my liver.

Coffee…always, and best taken early in the morning ─ hot, in a small glass and preferably outside where the water glistens and the sun greets you with her smile!

Bulb dresses…sheer with a lick of sequins, and at least 4 years old.  FancyFeelin’ for a Saturday night out!

Dinner with real Southern hospitality!

Meeting like-minded folk.  There’s nothing like getting closer to your jungle and closer to your tribe.

Spiked sweet tea!  Oh-em-Gee!  For someone who is not a dark-spirits drinker, this little refresher goes down a treat.  Plans to serve it at my casa soon!

Wine deals…sweet sweet sweet!

Water lilies!!!  I have always loved this flower…they feel so incredibly decadent, and even more so when you gift them.

Beautiful Bloom

Good friends.

Mini, sweet Kumato tomatoes eaten with chopped up Lebanese cucumbers.

The May Cause Miracles online conference.  So many magical peeps in one divine hit!

Being guided…by my inner-guide and the Universe.  So good.

Exotic Green smoothies

Exotic Green smoothie

Air-conditioning and cool breezes ─ both essential in the last few days here in Sydney, and both greatly appreciated!

My humongous reading capacity…and thank God, as I adore reading-&-learning!

SundaySundowners…especially when they are impromptu, the evening is balmy, the location, beachside and the folk just lovely!

SundaySundowners

Impromptu dinners with friends…where they cook for you with love!

Good music!  This week…Supreme Beings Of Leisure ─ yes!

Homemade yoghurt infused with orange blossom. Uh…DEEviiiine!

Entrepreneurial friends who are going after their dreams and getting there.  So much in common…so much with which to confer.

Girl on a swing

Family.  Full-stop.

Coconut butter.  The raw, organic kind.  So versatile….I eat it, cook with it, put it in my hair, on my face and on my body.  Pure goodness.  And it smells divine.

Wednesday’s moon.

Harbour adventures ─ mid-week!

msbrownskin

Being helpful.

Waking up ‘in the middle of nowhere’

Using everything in my fridge, freezer and pantry before hitting the store!  Such an accomplished feeling.

Making stand-out meals, twice in one week, with pretty much ‘nothing’ in the way of ingredients…it’s Nigella on a WHOLE new level!

Being so incredibly well-looked-after, when out at my local grocer’s…service…kindness.

Fresh sheets!

Lavender essential oil…and pure rose water.

The best things…because they are always freeeeee!

“This man can monologue like nobody’s business”!!  ”louche and raucous”…”broody and belligerent”  So so so grateful for words…such wicked wizardry!

Salmon soaked in Harissa, and mini baked potatoes together with organic butter, sour cream and fresh coriander… all joining forces on my plate-party.  Sooooo beyond YUM!

Inner hustle (!!!!), a gooooood Good Friday, chilling and only minor plans…& serious anticipation of Diana Vreeland’s The Eye Has To Travel!

Happy Easter!  Inhale some LOVE as well as the chocolate!

xx

Thank you!

Thank you!

As the minutes whizz by, the days and this week, I stop for a moment now to acknowledge them all ─ with thanks…

The “publish” button.  It makes me want to hit it up some more!

Exercise.  I never really feel like it, but I always feel great after I’ve done it.

Jo’burg tales.

MaltEaster bunnies.  I know, epic iquitsugar fail, but…..no excuses, just is.

Aloe Vera ─ on my face, on my body and in my hair, post-swims.

“In this moment, I am in complete acceptance of ALL my life  ─ its challenges and its joys.  I am blessed” – Tommy Rosen

Belgrave Cartel…just as I was hankering for some Surry Hills love!  Great coffee and a cool urban vibe.  Love the new refurbishment, and looking forward to Sundowners soon!

Adventurous dinners!

Biiiiig Double Brie cheese wheels!  Cheese and crackers ─ the best snack.

Mammoth Sunday Green-juicing sesh.  Reaping the benefits maintenant!.

Fresh sandwiches eaten by the beach.

Writing writing writing….oh and did I mention writing!!??!!

Nighttime photo-sorting….albums, categories….a Virgo-rising Libran dream.  Organisation rules!

Discovering new music ── ROOF!

Quadrangle Rooftop Markets at Office 2010.  The bomb!

Divine cocktails (and food) from Naked Indiana, and the sweet folk there ─ hi Bec!

Fresh figs  ─ one more hit before the end of the season.

Magazines.  Real Living ─ my all-time favourite, Madison, Harper’s Bazaar and InsideOut.  I don’t buy them as often as I used to, and now when I do, they are a real treat!

A Tale of Two Cities…..it may be a while yet, but it’s gonna be a goodie.  I, for one, cannot wait!

brownskin…..ms brownskin and her poetry-prose.  I almost forgot just how good she is for my soul!

Erecting boundaries and breaking down barriers!

Share Your Victory®

Mini-meltdowns.  It’s bound to happen, so I just go with them, and appreciate them, because they are there to serve me and it’s up to me to take that cue.  I am thankful that I can and do, even though the eye-of-the-storm is the pits.

Clarity + Energy.  They come in full-force after the mini-meltdowns!

My curiosity and my seeking nature.  I wear the halo of Hope-Springs-Eternal, and happy to don it.

A juicy mango just before dinner.

Home-made tomato pasta sauce.

A continuous pictorial thread of inspiration from the iquitsugar Instagram feed!

Curly hair compliments!

Vintage black leather, white boots, old lace-&-linen tops, and black Zulu beads.

Last-minute appointments.

Inspiration from Maria Hannaford at Econest.

Trying…again and again and again.

Suddenly things…stuff just coming together without my ‘logical’ effort!

Thank you again!

Thank you!

Thank you!

It’s time……to take a moment to say thank you thank you thank you…

1. My Best Moment Award!

2. Friday afternoon with Gabby Bernstein!

3. The Internet for its wide-reach (see #2!)

4. Knowing that the Universe has my back, and her wee sign today (see #1!)

4. FabulousFriday indeed!

5. Being t.o.t.a.l.l.y. re-inspired by my own baby…my blog lieslg!

6. iTunes radio – oh, the variety!

7. Sipping red wine while cooking dinner

8. South African mince curry & roti – oh yeah!

9. The practice of ‘focus’ paying off

10. My BIG hair curls!

11. Being inspired by the little things…the big things

12. Being on-track!

13. Working on the weekends – so productive!

14. Impending weekend wonder-weather!

15. Getting to see my sister……soon!

16. Love, support, supply, abundance!

17. Homemade coffee

18. Extra swimming laps

19. Soft-sand running

20. My swimming stroke…apparently it is the bomb! hahaha

And this is only a snippet of one day’s worth of gratitude & thankfulness…WOW right?!

Life-affirming stuff.  Try it.  What are you grateful for right now?

It’s Cocktail Hour! G&T anyone?

I have much for which to be grateful, but today I am leaving it all in my BlueBook – also known as my cobalt Moleskine.

All I need to do in this space is to say thank you…to me.

It’s been a tough week. She is with me all the way. And it’s time for me to allow her to step away…

It’s dvds, my book and good food to round off my end-of-week. Oh, and very much looking forward to my day with Louise L Hay and co!

Cheers xx

ps: remember to be kind to yourself, however hard you want her (or him!) to work and achieve!

xx

It’s Cocktail Hour! G&T anyone?

A stream begins with a droplet…so here goes people ━ your G&T on tap!

❥Morning gratitude – so good beginning one’s day with thanks. I highly recommend it.  If it seems that you may not have much for which to be grateful, let me assure you that you do!  Once you start, it’s much like turning on a tap ━ it’s amazing and uplifting all rolled into one.  I take my morning gratitude over a glass of morning nectar and a huge hit of sunshine – I scribble and sip, on repeat while simultaneously sucking up some sun!  If I miss my MG, I hit up some G&T on the other end of my day, cocooned in bed.  Just as toasty and gratifying❥Letting go – sometimes you just have to let go!  Stop. And give yourself some love and peace❥Getting to bed earlier❥switching off the laptop at 8pm!  So hard! But so good for me❥Getting back to hard copy books.  How could I forget what that feels like?! Looking forward to whole afternoons of reading❥Vegetables roasted in coconut butter.  Who knew I could do this number for dinner and be satiated?!❥Giving ‘Raw’ a real shot.  It’s exciting and in motion❥Paying attention to my resistance…with love rather than loathing❥Reducing my coffee intake and just feeling how it feels❥Mario’s word-isms!  Man, do they crack me up!  Laughter seriously is the best remedy!❥Talking with my mamabear – big LOVE right there!❥Likes, comments, emails and gifts from SisterSledge!❥My li’l brother’s entrepreneurial spirit, and his crack-me-up humour.  He loves to refer to me as his weird, crazy-ass sister!❥My thought-capsule reserved especially for my dad – it has been FULL these past 2 weeks❥Catching up with my most amazing entrepreneurial Transplant™ girlfriend over a super healthy FridayBreakfast.  She is an inspiration and it was so lovely exchanging on that business level as well❥Zipping around town in Lady Josephine (my car!)❥Reading food labels, and understanding them! No small feat I tell ya!❥Experimenting. Special mention goes to eco skincare (peeps, SO much better for you and SO inexpensive and so few things in the toiletry bag!) and raw/whole-fooding!❥Getting real❥“If your goals aren’t terrifying you, they’re not BIG enough!”❥Raw cacao smoothies, minus the agave!❥Vision boarding, again! lol❥Fab additional strength-training exercises ━ thank you outdoor personal trainers!  Sweet serendipity indeed as I don’t normally even notice anyone around me when I’m in huff-’n-puff mode!❥Ahhh…Apple Cider Vinegar, in my mouth, on my face & through my hair. So good.  Organic and INexpensive!❥White Oriental lilies! So beautifully fragrant and lovely to look at too❥“Wouldn’t it be nice if…”❥Being treated so well during recent SundayShenanigans™ at Chez Dee! My first visit, and a blog post to follow soon on my experience there!❥Nikki Gemmel - I adore this woman, & she is a delight in person!❥Throwing myself into my own BeliefBouncingCastle and knocking myself out!  Frick, it’s scary-feel-good, and a fabulous ‛get real’ activity.  You should SO try it!❥PomPoms!❥Grabbing whole moments of complete contentment – no past or future thoughts required!❥Impending weekend catch-ups with good friends!

My loves, the tap doth runneth over, but I’ll stem it there…and let you take it from here!  I want to hear your love-lists, I do! What’s making you happy? What are you loving right now? What’s putting you in full appreciation mode!  Hit up the comments ━ I would love nothing better!

Oh, and take this with you as you wander through your weekend…

 

It’s Happy Birthday at Cocktail Hour! G&T anyone?

♫Happy birthday to me.  Happy birthday to me.  Happy birthday to me-eeeee, happy FIRST birthday lieslg!♬

Yes, it’s that time.  One year already – wow!  And how apt that it should fall on a G&T Friday!!

So in honour of a year IN, and it serendipitously coming about at my G&T Cocktail Hour, I’ve decided to play on numbers today ━ yes, you guessed it, the number 12 is going to be in the spotlight!

12 things for which I am grateful ━ on the 12th month of my blog-run ━ in two thousand and 12, the year in which we all DELVE…deeper!

1. lieslg.com  Of course!  We have come this far, and I am only now really getting into my flow with you, and loving the be-heck outta you to boot.  It was always my intention to transition to this digitised notebook ━ my über-umbrella under which my cornucopia of ideas can take shelter, percolate and flourish.  My own neighbourhood of crankin’ creativity, where all wave at each other over fences.  To all of this, a special G&T salute!

2. My peeps.  Family is indeed foundation!  When it’s built solid, it can withstand the mightiest wind and the angriest storms ━ the grit and the muck can slap up against your window, but.it.just.sliiiides right the hell off!  Love is a short word, but its shadow is looooong, and I am grateful in my knowledge and experience that family fluff and frivolity is one thing, but it is FamilyFoundation that rocks ━ and rules! My nuclear family – including my dad who is indeed now our heavenly father!  My love, my rock, my friend ━ Mario, often referred to here as my NumberOneMan™.  My extended family scattered all over the world and Oz, but whose hearts are always near.  My family through marriage-thread!  My Transplants and Indiggies also known as my friends ━ those ‘transplanted’ from other countries, and my Aussie mates.  AND of course the newest peeps ━ my PrettyPetticoats and BobbyBritches.  Yes, that’s you out there who lovingly let your eyes roam over my words!  To all of you, a special G&T salute!

3. Coffee.  Yes, especially the smell of goooood coffee wafting into my bedroom whilst I get dressed.  Yes, NumberOneMan™ does this well!  To you, a special G&T salute!

4. Gifted bottles of le vin rouge.  I visited Casa Mama this past weekend, and not only did we leave with the customary Tupperware containers of good food, but added to that stash came the red in multiple bottles!  One, a South African 2005 Pinotage from Môreson ━ a riverside winery nestled in the picturesque mountain settings of Franschhoek Valley. That it reminds me of Gary, is extra sweet; My dad was an avid collector of South African wines.  To this, a special G&T salute!

5. Word Mistress. Being referred to as Word Mistress!  Such a compliment.  To you, a special G&T salute!

6. Challenges.  Work.  Exercise.  Personal.  Sometimes they play on their own.  Other times they come together in one big raucous party ━ oh, the hangover!  But I wouldn’t have it any other way.  If my aim is to continue to sprout in new and wonderful ways, then I have to deal with pushing through the dirt!  And the things we learn…SO big, so nourishing ━ a whole lotta messy, but that’s what the ritual of bathing is for ━ wash away the gunk and soak those aching parts!  Meeting my challenges face on, and getting uncomfortable on a regular basis, is the best comfort I can be rewarded.  To these, a special G&T salute!

7. My creations.  Yesterday, while searching for some laptop screen cleaner, I came across some of these in one of my many notebooks!  It was a lovely distraction, and an even lovelier reminder of all the things within me, and all of the things I am doing.  It’s a wink from my Universal A-Team.  And for this, a special G&T salute!

8. Gorgeous Winter weather.  Cerulean skies and the Sun-babe giving these cold days a pimpin’ polish ━ so good!  A special G&T salute to you!

9. Baby Bliss.  It’s never been in my grand plan to have babies. Strange, because I absolutely love them!  Back in the day, my friend and I would laugh when I’d say, “You pause for the dogs, & I stop for the babies!”  There is something so infinitely pleasing about them, and twice in the past two days, toddlers prompted a smile and animation from me ━ I must also add that both times I was mid-way through my training session, and not generally a time for smiles or convivial conversation! To the kidlets ━ a special G&T salute indeed!

10. A good read.  From the frivolous fun and inspo I get from magazines, to the hardcopy books of my youth, and now the online onslaught, I am just in heaven!  I read you all ━ anywhere I am!  I laugh with you, get inspired by you, I get lost in you ━ relish you; I learn from you and I meet amazing people through you!  I am a lucky lass.  So to you my bedfellows, I salute,  and a special G&T one to boot!

11. Serendipity.  In all things!  Finding your answers ━ so fluidly.  Being lead.  Discovering places and things on your radar ━ so fluidly.  I think serendipity is sweet and most definitely sassy, and to her I raise a special G&T salute!

12. Snippets!  When time is on a tight leash, many things get lost ━ often the things you most want to do!  So when suddenly I find myself gifted with snippets ━ of both time and fiery ideas, I have to just…be in awe ━ and G&T mode!  Odd things, odd times all find their way into my inspiration inkwell and I realise that all things can be done ━ we find a way.  To the bits-&-bobs, I wave at you, a special G&T salute!

And with that, I have the birthday G&T salute down pat!

But, of course, that’s not all!  As a little weird-y birthday treat, I’ll finish off with a wish and…

12 Frivolous Facts about the girl, in celebration of her blog birthday ━ bombastic! lol

1. I love double and triple-salted Dutch liquorice, and Brussels sprouts!

2. My dad’s pet name for me was appeltje (meaning little apple in Afrikaans).  He used to always say, in a lovely lilting voice and with a big smile on his face, “Hello daddy’s little appeltje”!

3. I could happily live without ice-cream.

4. My name, spelling included, is directly from The Sound of Music!  My mum was a huge fan ━ and still is today.

5. I was born in Cape Town, South Africa.

6. For the first year of my life, I had no hair!  My mum got used to the many “Oh my, isn’t he gorgeous!” and “He is sooo cute, what’s his name?”  hahaha

7.  In 2001 I wrote and recorded a song.  It was nominated in the 2011 MusicOz Awards.

8. In 2002 I surprised Mario with a recording of “Happy Birthday” for his birthday, which was promptly played in the private room at The Park Hyatt, much to the surprise and delight of all in attendance ━ waitstaff included!

9. I am an excellent parallel parker!

10. I completed my 3-year Drama degree ━ from Melbourne’s La Trobe University ━ in two years.

11. To date, I have lived in 5 countries.

12. My favourite book is the dictionary!!

Hope you were thrillingly entertained! lol

Over and out ━ have a smashing weekend! xx

It’s Cocktail Hour! G&T anyone?

…has whizzed by and now it’s time for that well-wanted thankfulness-quencher ;)

And wow, the minute you think that there isn’t enough kapow! in your life for which to be grateful, up POPS the unnoticed which when noticed just makes you think “wow, I sure am lucky!”  And more importantly makes you smile and love your life – whatever and wherever you are!   You see, G&T isn’t about the brightest sparkle, the most glamourous folk and the golden kisses you’ve just landed, although CHEERS to that if it’s in the house or when it knocks on your door!  G&T is just about being thankful, for EVERYTHING – big or small, coveted or not – OR all mixed in together – occasionally or continuously!!

1. Slow-&-Steady.  In a world that requires demands us to move and speak and think and do…at lightning-pace, it’s good to meet with slow-&-steady, for she can & indeed does win the race!  It’s more than okay to adopt this pace, in fact I encourage it.  It doesn’t mean you are less ambitious, or less focussed – not.at.all!  It simply means that you are allowing yourself to breathe it all in at a steady and pleasurable pace;  that you are going back to your authentic self and modus operandi…in other words, how it was always meant to be.  Going faster doesn’t always mean you get more done and more quickly.  Sure you can get things done & dusted – sometimes.  More often than not though, you find yourself face-to-face with your good ole frenemy FRENETIC, and we all know she ain’t fun!

So this week, I appreciated slow-&-steady and got things done! Oh, and I found that as soon as I relaxed into this perspective, ideas and tasks had more fluidity to them, and as a result, I got things done…quickly! hahaha

2. A Chat & A Cry.  Keeping it all in is for pussies!  The strong and the brave vomit it all out — in a jumble of words or streams of deliciously salty liquid.  Some of us are even adept at grabbing the two-for-one scenario ━ and damnit, you feel shitty and ugly, but damnit again, it feels good when all that shitty ugliness is all.out.in.the.open deprived of oxygen and evaporating into the invisible air.  See, the shitty-&-ugly comes ━ harder and faster ━ when you have decided to make good decisions, and every day are determined to stick by them ━ hellooo commitment and focus!  The Universal forces kinda wanna ‘play’ with you, and see just how serious you actually are about your new commitment and focus.  Cruel, I know, but they have a point. You don’t suddenly morph into nirvana personified, oh noooo! You are likely to feel more u.n.c.o.m.f.o.r.t.a.b.l.e than you have ever felt before.  Your belief system flies in your face;  your values bob up and down obstructing your new way.  Oh, yes cue the ugly.and.the.shitty, like clockwork! But, you know, it’s great, and worth it.  Being uncomfortable like this means only one thing ━ the shitty-&-ugly is short-lived, but your growth continues! [looking forward to appreciating HARD the next bout of the shitty-&-the-ugly...it never felt so good!]

Addendum: BIG love & appreciation to my ‘bucket’ aka my NumberOneMan™ for catching it all – listening and soothing and putting everything into perspective!

3. The Wind At My Back.  Fresh from my Chat-&-Cry sesh, it takes every ounce of me (including the added extras! lol) to get myself onto soft sand to run.  But I do and I exhale ━ the last of all that musty gunk, and inhale the sweet sea air.  I soften and become sharp all in one breath and I.am.SO.grateful for small mercies.  And then just to cement the tremendous support I (and in fact we all) do indeed have, the wind picks up and is literally at my back helping me along!  I can’t help but break out with the huuuugest smile as it dawns on me just what is happening.  And then, just to keep things fun (she’s a funny old bird, Ms Universe!) it’s still there when I have to run back and straight into it! lol  But all at once, I am thinking “Cool, she’s making me work harder in a shorter amount of time – extra strength training – and I am right into it and loving it to boot!

4. The Colour Blue.  It’s ironic, that phrase ‘feeling blue’ because blue is such an invigorating colour!  Cobalt, azure, cerulean, sapphire, turquoise, sky, sea, mazarine, opalescent, gentian…even these words sound deliciously uplifting!  Running on biscuit coloured sand while being up-and-side swathed in beautiful blue, is nothing short of rejuvenating. Oh and it helps that half of my running get-up is a hot hit of cobalt – pow!  In short, loving the upside of blue!

5. The smallest of actions is always better than the noblest of intentions.  From Who Will Cry When You Die?, I took a moment to rejoice in this saying ━ because it’s true!  Our intentions are usually magnanimous, our to-do-lists equally so ━ the thought of which can make anyone keel right over in fright!  And when we are overwhelmed, we tend to zone out in favour of a preferred instantaneous-super-distraction!  Been there, done that!

But then I took stock, decided to buck up and become mates with the small things;  I grabbed one – any one and just.did.it! Bam.  Done.  Dusted.  Aahhh m’goodness, felt darn good, and tick ✓ one thing done.  And now repeat. Oooohhh, I feel a pattern parking itself in my vista (a bloody good one too) and I am diggin’ it.

And while my Olympic-worthy-to-do-list still prevails, I can proudly say that I am already polishing one medal!

Okay, your turn!

PS: There are plenty more rounds of this Friday’s cocktail, but I’ve decided to plant them (in pink!) in my mazarine Moleskine, and leave some white space for you to paint up BIG!

Here’s to mammoth love swirling its way into and all around your weekend xx

It’s Cocktail Hour! G&T anyone?

It takes only ONE to get you going…

Today I serve up FIVE delicious-tasting-smelling-feeling G&Ts, aaand they’re all on the house!  Get tipsy on some good old-fashioned thankfulness…

She is often touted as bad.  Perhaps some redemption is in order!  Loving this perspective on procrastination, and grateful for the reminder.  This has happened to me many times, where I have put things off, albeit nudged by a murky gut-feeling.  And yet continued to feel bad for once more indulging in the P-word…only to find that my murky-gut-feeling was indeed my instinct that once again, had served me well!

Evenings chez nous!  Hanging out at home is the best – especially when you’ve done a solid day’s work, and just eaten a deliciously healthy meal.  Nothing beats some home-hang-time. Whether it’s more work, blog-work, the perusal of your chosen-cyber-corner, watching a dvd, or spontaneously discussing more biznez!  It’s wind-down time (even if you’re kinda still working!) and I am grateful to be able to indulge.

Out-&-About.  Sometimes your most productive work is done in your training gear, mid-morning, over coffee, and in about 20 minutes flat!  Add to that another 15 minutes lappie-on-lap, and in the car (not driving! lol).  PLUS in-between unpacking the groceries, prepping dinner and a wayward email!! I am learning to value and appreciate those times when it’s least expected to be in work-mode (at least productive work-mode!) and just BE bloody awesomely proactive.  Sometimes being in-the-rough, brings on your most stellar work.  I appreciate my fluid schedule!

Recipes from The Stonesoup.  Jules Clancy is a genius in the easy-kitchen.  She has a truckload of divinely simple recipes – all with at least 3 options – read veg/vegan/nut-free/diary-free and more!  Hello 5-ingredients and 10 minutes cooking time – holla atchya hunny!  She even has video versions – how cool is that?! AND if you hop on over there now, you’ll be in for some super-lovely freebies…all you need to do is click and download. Cooking in as little as snack-time?  Girl after my own heart!

Reconciliations.  Ah yes, those things!  Sometimes emotions run high, and things are said.  Later, the pot cools down and the kettle sings her sweet song once more….bless….all is well in the kitchen.  Am grateful to be cooking once more with love in ze heart and tap-tap-tappin’ toons swirling about m’ears.

Okay my PrettyPetticoats and BobbyBritches, how is your G&T tastin’ right about now?!  Spill……pun intended!